How to pick up women: Lose the fear of rejection

Fearing rejection from a woman you try to chat up is a common problem. It probably afflicts 80% of the males on the planet. Nearly all guys go about thinking "oh no, what if she says no" etc and for what? It is a completely irrational sentiment and for this reason you must put it to work for your self. If 80% of the men are not trying to pick up women then the odds are heavily stacked in favor of the men who do.

Firstly, I'd like to point out something that you would have seen, but not noticed. Women don't tend to tell men who try to chat them up to F. off. It just doesn't happen like that, I mean, when did you last see it happen. People (and women in particular) tend to be very polite and accommodating and for the most part will not verbally attack a stranger if that stranger is themselves polite and respectful.

Secondly, if you don't lose the fear of rejection and start talking to some girls who you don't know then you will definitely be rejected - by yourself. What?! Yes, it's true, because you made the wrong decision to sit on the sidelines and not get involved. You were the manager and you left yourself on the subs bench. Good job Coach.

Finally, think about this. Have you or one of your friends ever told a stranger to get lost? Probably not, so what makes you think someone will do it to you? To re-iterate one of the above points, humans are basically very social creatures who enjoy interactions with other humans. And the really hot chicks are only humans and love attention so do you think they are gonna tell you where to go? Not likely if you do it properly.

So, get over the fear and your social circle of females will increase dramatically. This will also result in other areas of your life improving as your confidence spills over.